Breakup Advice Archives

The No Contact Rule Explained [And How Well It Works To Get An Ex Back]

One of the most important part of getting your ex back. Find out everything you need to know about the no contact rule here.

12 Different Ways The No Contact Rule Worked For People

Yes, no contact rule can help you move on from a breakup. It can also help you get your ex back. But did you know it can also make you realize that your relationship is worth trying to save and maybe it makes sense to be vulnerable and reach out? It can also put you […]

Should I Get Back Together With My Ex? Yes, No, or Wait?

There’s no doubt that getting back with an ex can work out in certain situations. Sometimes, people breakup for the wrong reasons and realize that what they had was special and worth trying to fix. The internet is filled with such stories. Heck if you ask around people you know, you will surely find a […]

My Girlfriend Cheated on Me – What Should I do?

Your girlfriend cheated on you and you don’t know what to do. You’ve probably asked this question to your friends and family, to which, you got the ubiquitous answer, “Move on, she’s a $@#!@”. But things are not as simple as that in your head. You have all these thoughts in your head, you feel […]

Get Your Ex Back After Cheating: The Basics of Rebuilding The Trust

If you cheated on your ex, it’s not going to be easy to win them back. But it’s also not necessarily a death sentence for your relationship. A lot of people get back in a healthy relationship after they cheated on their ex. In most cases, it takes a lot of time to repair the […]

When & Why Getting Back With an Ex Doesn’t Work (And When It Does)

Getting back with an ex does not work 50% of the time. We conducted research on 3512 participants and found that only 30% of participants managed to get back with their ex. But 15% of the total participants found themselves in another breakup down the road. While only 15% of the total participants stayed together […]

Can’t Stop Thinking About An Ex? – You Are Going To Be Okay

One of the hardest breakup I went through was followed by constant, obsessive and self-critical thoughts about my ex, the breakup, and the relationship. Thoughts like, “Why didn’t I pay her more attention?” “Why did I take her for granted?” “If I had done _____ when she was upset, maybe we would still be together.” […]

Signs Your Ex Misses You and When Will They Do Something About It

One of my client described her experience with the question “Does My Ex Miss Me” in an interesting way. “When we were together, my ex couldn’t live without texting me for more than 3 hours. If he didn’t hear from me till lunch, he would text me and say I miss you. He would say […]

I Miss My Ex – The Fear, The Pain and How To Stop Missing an Ex

A few days ago, I was reading a story about someone describing their experience with a college admission process. It reminded me how my ex from years ago and I worked together to draft her SOP and then sent it excitedly to the college she was applying to. I haven’t thought about that ex for […]

I Still Love My Ex: How To Cope and What To Do With This Love

When we were still together, cuddling on the sofa late in the evening, my ex asked me if I will always love her. It felt euphoric. “This amazing woman wants me to always love her”, I thought to myself. Without giving it a second thought, I said, “Of course, I will. I will never stop […]