About Ex Back Permanently

This website was started with a mission to provide information that could have really helped me when I was younger. But since starting this website, it has grown into something a lot bigger than that. Now, with the experience we have gained, Ex Back Permanently caters to people of all ages and all situation. We help people stop a divorce, get back with an ex, save their marriage, save their relationship, cope with the grief of a breakup, and even get over a breakup. This website has become the go to resource of all things related to breakups and reconciliation.

Our Mission

The mission of Ex Back Permanently is to provide high quality, in-depth and easy to digest information for people going through a breakup, a separation or relationship troubles. If you are going through a breakup or a separation, you will find the information on Ex Back Permanently immensely helpful, insightful and sometimes even life changing.

Our Values

Ex Back Permanently believes in helping people get an ex back and build a strong foundation to their new relationship. A foundation based on honesty, vulnerability, communication, trust and love. We believe that you should only get an ex back if you can keep them in a healthy relationship for a long time.

About Kevin Thompson

Kevin Thompson is an author and the founder of Ex Back Permanently. He has been helping people with breakups for the past 10 years. He is a breakup coach who specializes in helping people get back together in a healthy relationship. He also teaches people how to set clear boundaries, communicate effectively, be honest, be vulnerable and develop healthy relationships.

Why Should You Trust Me?

Listen, you are taking advice for something important in your life. And if someone gives you bad advice or inexperienced advice, you may regret it for the rest of your life.

What if you lose the most special person to you because you took advice from someone who does not know what they are talking about?

It’s important that you trust the person you are taking the advice from. And here’s why you should trust me.

I’ve been working with heart broken people for quite a while now. At the moment of writing this, it’s been 10+ years of helping people with breakups and relationship. I consider myself a breakup coach who specializes in helping people get back together. I also specialize in teaching people how to set clear boundaries, communicate effectively, be honest, be vulnerable and develop healthy relationships.

After all, there is no point in getting back together if you can’t have a healthy and long-lasting relationship with your loved one. And communication, trust, honesty and vulnerability are some of the most important foundations of a healthy relationship.

I have helped thousands of people get back with their ex. I can proudly say that I am one of the few people online who truly care about their readers and clients. I am a coach who wants my clients to make healthy decisions. I don’t encourage people to use tricks or be fake when it comes to relationships. In my experience, relationships built on fake trickery do not last long.

If you are having doubts trusting me, I recommend you read the articles here at Ex Back Permanently. In my articles, I try to explain exactly what you should do and the reason behind the recommendation. I don’t just pull stuff of out my ass. I am speaking from years of experience and thousands of case studies.

I have learnt from my mistakes and the mistakes of thousands of my clients. You can’t fake this stuff. I am sure when you read my articles, you will understand that my advice comes from experience and a genuine concern for your well-being and your success in getting your ex back in a healthy relationship.

(I recommend you start with this article on getting your ex boyfriend back or this article on getting your ex girlfriend back)

In fact, I’ve even had recommendation from licensed therapists and psychologists from across the country. Yes, this is a website that is recommended by professional therapists. You can read about it here.

When I write an article or create a product, I consider the following important points,

1) Write in-depth content that covers as much base as possible on the subject. You will find some of the most in-depth articles on topics such as getting your ex girlfriend back or signs that your ex loves you.

2) Write the content in a way that is easy to understand and digest. There is no point in writing the articles if they are not easy to understand. I’ve noticed a lot of people out there just keep pouring gibberish in an attempt to increase their word count. On Ex Back Permanently, you will find articles that are well formatted, and they have a flow to them that is easy to follow and digest.

3) Make sure that the articles are up to date on the latest research and experience. Listen, I don’t claim to know it all. I understand that humans and culture evolve and so does the process of getting back an ex. I am constantly refining my advice and methods because I interact with many people daily. I use the information to improve my products and the articles on this website. I am also constantly on the lookout for any scientific research or studies that may be relevant to getting an ex back and breakups. You can rest assured that you will only get the best advice on this website. (In fact, we conducted our own research on exes getting back together. You can read it here.)

Sure, you will find a lot of “ex back” coaches with tons of YouTube videos. But if you look at them closely, you will find they all just peddle “The No Contact Rule” in a shiny package. Their videos and articles mostly give generic advice which can sometimes be even harmful in some situation.

Yes, I want you to trust me. But more than that, I want you to think critically and stop panicking. If you panic, you are most likely to believe bad advice from these Fake-Gurus with fake testimonials.

Speaking of Testimonials, here are a few of them from the readers of this website and the readers of my free email series. They are 100% genuine and unaltered (except the names have been changed to protect the privacy of my readers). I can provide proof of these testimonials if needed. You can read more testimonials on the review page.

Hey There, I don't know if these emails are sent automatically by some sort of software or is it any of you really aware of my situation, but anyways I wanted to say 'thank you', a lot, I'm really grateful for all the advices I've been getting from you, I've been trying to fight depression and suicidal thoughts my whole life, and obviously when my girlfriend decided to break up with me I fell apart, my life started going backwards. In all honesty I really think we'll never get back together, but I still read all you emails so I can follow the advices on personal development and try to be a better version of me, I guess now it's not about getting her back, I just get a sense of hope and confidence to keep going forward in life every time I read one of your emails, so, thanks a lot. The void still remains inside me, but every day I manage to shrink it, those who fall will be forgotten but those who rise up their names will be remembered forever and boy I have to say that your guidance has made me want to rise up.

Best Regards all the way from Venezuela.

I sense a sincerity in these writings that is long been shadowed for money and greed by others.

This is out of character for me, i dont praise anybody through email and very rarely do i get moved enough to give a stranger my happy opinion. But I genuinely enjoy reading your emails and i sense a sincerity in these writings that is long been shadowed for money and greed by others.

Keep doing what you are doing brother. You’ve made a fan out of me and I will soon reach out and try supporting your cause in what little way i may be able to.

You may not know the impact simply sending a genuine email might have. To those of us that are used to heartache, loneliness - its so much more than an email from a stranger.

Thanks again and I wish you all the best,

Hey Kevin,

Thank you for these exercises. They really made a world of difference in my perception of my breakup. I have ultimately decided to let go of my ex and relax away from love for a while. I always sought out my lovers and that has always ended in disappointment so I'm gonna go with the flow and let the lover find me someday. I have to admit - these Healing Worksheets were why I bought the whole program. Don't get me wrong, your EBP guide was just as important for me to read, but getting me out of the denial & bargaining stages were the most critical thing to do and these worksheets helped tremendously.

You're awesome. Thank you.

Idk if you read these or if your a real person or what. I really appreciate everything you and your company or whatever do. I've come a lon way in a short time and k want to continue to grow. Even if it doesn't work out im a happier person and her and her kids will always have a place in my heart and soul.

I found you, and today I am smiling, laughing, eating, sleeping

have to say, 2 n a half weeks ago I was a complete mess.

I didn’t even get out of bed for days on end and then when I went away for work I was so desperate for help through this.

Then I found you, and today I am smiling, laughing, eating, sleeping (kind of lol)

And so much more, my outlook on my whole life has changed and I am looking at myself so much more deeper then I ever have.

It’s exactly what I needed to do, actually the co dependant email, that’s when it hit me. The role I played. I was completely co dependant and the moment I realised that, something flipped and pushed me to want to be happy for me, from within, full my cup so I can bring something to the table, not just take from the table.

I’m grateful. For you, and your emails.

I just had to let you know

Thank you 💕

I just wanted to say thank you for these emails. They really helped me realize a lot, and that my ex and I really needed the break up. Our relationship wasn't really long to begin with and I'm starting to understand why. I also wanted to thank you for being with me through this hard time. You made me realize there really is hope for me as far as love goes. And, I mean things are still weird between him and I, but it's gonna be that way for awhile. All I know is it's getting easier everyday. I really appreciate you writing and sending these emails to me; you don't know how much they've helped.

Honestly thank you so much for your articles and emails, like i asked friends for opinions and support , it didnt work as well as yours, like thank you ssosososososoosososososo much for the advice, i dont know if you can see this message but thanks a lot for your articles, genuinely feel a lot better, couldnt have gone through this break up without your articles of support

I honestly just want to thank you. What you have built has been a huge help to people like me going through this shit. I’m really thankful have your website. And every time I waiver, I read it and it calms me down. Same with the daily emails. You have done a great thing

I LOVE ALL YOUR EMAILS AND MY EX HAS CONTACTED ME THIS WEEK ! It’s like you know everything! Every email you sent me has been accurate I can’t thank you enough. I can’t wait for tomorrow

Thank you kevin. All your artical was helpful. I got my boyfriend back. You are such a wonderful person please keep helping others.

You are such a honest and thoughtful person i have ever seen. You're such a caring human beings.

Thank you for everything. Since i got back him i am the happiest person ever. And also there is good news you wanna hear?


I just want to thank you for your guidance and daily advice! It’s pulled me up out of a depression I didn’t think was ever going to end.

can confess that coming across your articles when the breakup happened is one of the best thing that happened to me. I come from Africa where emotional breakdown is viewed as weak. The breakup after 6 years in a relationship with the man I love was heartbreaking. The only place I could find solace was online thank God I came across your work. He broke up with me after we had some issues telling me he found someone else who is still currently with,two months now.

Thank you for making me feel better and appreciate myself. You have no idea how this means to me. Thank you for being a blessing.

I've looked at a lot of breakup type sites, and tbh I havent found any that have impressed me as much as yours.

Hi Kevin. I'm not sure if this reply will find it's way to you, but I'm not really sure what else to do. I've looked at a lot of breakup type sites, and tbh I havent found any that have impressed me as much as yours. You've done an amazing job! My situation is (in my opinion) unique and I'm not really sure how to proceed as a lot of the circumstances dont seem to apply. In your email today it said "if this hits home give me a shout". Well it definitely did. I've been waiting for one of your email packages to become available, and believe me, when one does you'll be hearing from me.

You've done an amazing job with the site, and I really appreciate the way you emphasize respect and that it's her choice at the end of the day to say no. Some guys really need to hear that.

Thanks again.

My names R and I’m a 18year old male from Singapore. I just wanna thank u so much for helping me get through this tough period of time. My ex finally decided to break it off with her rebound because she couldn’t help but miss me. She finally admits to loving me. I really have to thank you man. You were my light and you help me get through one of the toughest period of times. Really aprreciate it man. I can’t express how thankful i am to you and your daily emails. I hope you have a great week ahead and bless u:)

Jennifer Jenkins

Kevin Thompson’s Story

I’ve been a professional breakup and relationship coach for most of my adult life. I know that’s probably seems like a strange profession to you. But it’s something that I am truly proud of. It’s always brings a smile on my face when I read a testimonial from someone saying that I’ve changed their life for the better.


How it all started?

I’ve always had an interest in self-improvement and relationships. While searching for information in these niches, I came across a lot of “Ex Back Gurus”, who were selling information on how to get your ex back.

To no one’s surprise, the information was not very helpful. They all made great promises on their sales pages and provided the same information when you brought their eBooks. (You know the usual, do no contact.)

Here’s the thing, when I was in high school, I had a bad breakup. And I had no one to guide me. I had no one to teach me how to be confident and how to pick myself up again. And one day while randomly browsing the internet, I stumbled across this quote that really resonated with me.

“Be who you needed when you were younger.” – A Stranger who changed my life.

At this time, I was doing relatively better with girls and my self-confidence. And I thought it will be a good idea to make something that would have helped me when I was younger. To make something that would have made my life easier when I went through my first breakup. Something that would give me support when I needed the most.

I read a lot of books on relationships, psychology and human behavior. Eventually, I combined all the information online and the self-help books, and I came up with my own plan on how to get your ex back. At that point, it was a simple 3 step process. Take a step back, work on yourself, and re-communicate with your ex.

And unlike most Gurus online, I gave away my plan for free on my website.

The website took a life of its own. I was getting thousands of visitors everyday and hundreds of comments every week.

Now you’ve got to know something about me. I am an empathic guy. That means when I read your story, my mind will automatically try to put me in your shoes and try to feel what you are feeling.

Unlike most of the self-proclaimed “ex back Gurus”, I decided to reply to each comment and email I got. For free.

Yes, when I started this, I was interacting with hundreds of people every week. Don’t believe me? I have an archived version of my article over here with me replying to each comment for years. Be warned, there are tens of thousands of comments and it might take a long time for the page to load. And these are just the comments. I have also had email conversations with thousands of clients as well.

An old screenshot of me replying to an email in 2014.

Note: I don’t reply to all the comments and emails any more. I only work closely with few clients instead of spreading myself thin. I’ve realized that I can learn more this way and as a result improve my methods faster and more efficiently.

I didn’t just learn things about relationships and breakups in books or a classroom. I worked with people all over the world in a variety of different situations for almost a decade.

As I interacted with more people, I got better at understanding heart broken people and saying the right things that will encourage them to pick themselves up and become confident again.

I refined my plan. I understood breakups better. I understood breakup dynamics better. I understood what goes through the mind of your ex and what goes through your mind at different stages of getting your ex back.

If you read my articles, you will find that the core of my advice is always focused on rebuilding your confidence and your relationship skills. You need to pick yourself up and stop acting out of neediness and desperation. You need to stop panicking and make sure you are making healthy choices in your life. If you decide to get your ex back, it should be a healthy choice for both you and your ex. (And that’s something most Gurus don’t talk about).

Do you provide any additional help?

Yes, we do have some products that we promote and sell to support this website. But in most cases, you will find our free articles provide more than enough information to help you get through your breakup and possibly get your ex back. If you are interested in more help, we recommend you check out our products page to find out how we can help you more.

Next Step?

Check out some of the best articles on our website below to get insights into your situation and the best way to get your ex back.


How To Get Your Ex Back Permanently – 5 Step Plan

This article is one of the first articles I wrote here and it’s still relevant today. This article is updated regularly and it contains the most accurate and in-depth information on the internet about getting your ex back.

How To Win Her Back in 5 Stages

This article is meant specifically for guys who are having a hard time with the breakup and want to get their girl back. It’s divided in stages. Just like a video game. It’s easy to follow and gives you an action plan you can start following today.

Rebound Relationships – Signs, Common Patterns and More

If your ex is in a new relationship or if you think they might get into a new relationship, you should read this article that talks in depth about rebound relationships. It includes information from different scientific studies combined with my own experience of helping thousands of clients whose exes were in a rebound.

Signs That Your Ex Loves You

One of the most common questions that might be on your mind is if your ex still has feelings for you. This article talks in-depth about the different signs that your ex may show after the breakup and what it means.

Do People Get Their Ex Back? A Study by Ex Back Permanently

We conducted a landmark study after analyzing more than 3500 breakup situations. We found out how many people get their ex back and how many of them stay together in a healthy relationship. This study has been featured in many reputable publications on the internet.

About The Privacy of Our Clients

We understand that getting an ex back and personal relationship problems are sensitive subjects. We have had clients from all over the world and from all different professions. We’ve even had clients from sports stars to relationships counselors. Everyone needs help and support at some point in their life. We understand and respect the privacy of all our clients. If you ever choose to interact with us, we will not disclose confidential information to anyone ever.

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