Can’t Stop Thinking About An Ex? – You Are Going To Be Okay

One of the hardest breakup I went through was followed by constant, obsessive and self-critical thoughts about my ex, the breakup, and the relationship. Thoughts like, “Why didn’t I pay her more attention?” “Why did I take her for granted?” “If I had done _____ when she was upset, maybe we would still be together.” […]


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Should I Get Back Together With My Ex? Yes, No, or Wait?

In my early 20s, I got back with an ex that I shouldn’t have gotten back with. I got back with her because I was young, insecure and immature. I got back with her because I was hurting from the breakup. Because I didn’t think I would ever find another girl as beautiful as her […]


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Should I Text My Ex? Why the Hell Not?

It just felt wrong not to text her, you know. We texted each other every day. First thing in the morning. Last thing at night. The last text always was either a heart emoji or a kiss emoji from both of us, no exception. But then, the breakup happened and everything just felt surreal. How […]


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When & Why Getting Back With an Ex Doesn’t Work (And When It Does)

Getting back with an ex does not work 50% of the time. We conducted research on 3512 participants and found that only 30% of participants managed to get back with their ex. But 15% of the total participants found themselves in another breakup down the road. While only 15% of the total participants stayed together […]


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