I have had A LOT of people subscribe to my email series since I started doing this. I’ve received a lot of emails from people thanking me for what I do. It’s without a doubt the best part of my day to receive a thank you email from someone. And I have been lucky enough to receive a lot of them every day.

For many people, my articles and the email series helped them get their exes back. For some, it helped them realize that they don’t want their ex back, and for some, it just helped them get through the dark times. In this page, I am going to write down word for word what some of the people think about the email series (5th Step of the 5 step plan).

Like I say in the starting of the 5 step plan, there is no guarantee you will get your ex back, but you will increase your chances of getting back together by following my advise. The testimonials on this page will show that even though the plan worked for many, there were still some people who never got back together.
However, even though they were not able to get back together, they were still able to learn a lot from the email series and it helped them get through the dark times and in many cases find someone better than their ex. A lot of them realizes they didn’t want their ex back. A lot of them found someone much better than their ex. And a lot of them were able to feel happiness after being miserable for a long time. I’ll let the testimonials speak for themselves.

Let’s start with the people who were able to get their ex back using the methods described in the 5 step plan and the tactics that I explain in the email series (5th step).

Testimonials Part 1: People Who Got Their Ex Back

Dear Kevin,
I don’t think you realize how much these emails helped me. You’ve help pull me through the hardest and most painful relationship of my life.
And I am so happy I did what you said because my ex wants me back now. I’m not so eager to jump back in to it after reading your insights about whether we really should be back together but he wants me again and I could not be more grateful for your help and support. Please keep sending them. You really are amazing!
Your information is so valuable. And it works!! I won my ex back using much of your advice. We are still together and going strong!! – Michelle

Thanks Kevin,

My ex and I have got back together again (better than ever) after a year, a month ,a week and a day apart.

I have really appreciated your thoughts and am sure they helped me remain positive.

Take care


You did help a lot and thank you we are now married and have three wonderful children 🙂 thank u so much and goodbye – Angela
Your messages definitely helped me through my breakup. About a year and a half ago my boyfriend of four years and I broke up and I desperately wanted him back, and because of some of the advice you had given, I was able to! Time went on and things were back to the way they were, and were not together anymore, and it’s okay. I wouldn’t have been able to go through the realization process had I not read these, as well. Your messages were very beneficial to me, though I don’t need them anymore, they were always appreciated. Thank you so much! – Jenae

Thank you for all your information. It has been instrumental for me. It saved my marriage. Cheers and best of luck in all your endeavors.


Thanks for your help your emailz help me me and my ex are going out again 🙂 – Glorimar
Your emails really did help me through my break up with my fiance. We have now been married for almost 2 years and couldn’t be happier. Thank you and I wish you much luck and happiness in your life=)Thanks,Norah Smith
Thank you. Your e-mails helped me a lot.
My ex came back and now we are happier than ever. We added a new member to the family (baby boy 1 yr old) 🙂
and we are ready to move in into our new house.
thank you.Claudia Hall
Thank you Kevin. I just wanted to let you know you did help me and i thought your insight was spot on and very helpful for not only getting through a break up but also how to have a better relationship. Your advice was realistic, positive and heartfelt. I hope others find you when they are in need of break up and or relationship advice.
I ended up back together with my boyfriend and we are now engaged and in a happy and healthy relationship together.
Thanks for all your help!

Hello Kevin,

It has always been great to see your emails, especially during the time when I really needed someone to help me out as I went through a mental and emotional breakdown. But now, I am happily married (just celebrated our first year anniversary) :). So I think you have fulfilled your purpose of setting things straight for me through your emails, but from now I would like others to benefit from your emails. Thanks for all the great words and inspiration throughout the years.

Take care and God Bless.



It has been an absolute pleasure to receive your emails. You helped me enormously
through a very difficult time. Your wise words, ‘grounding’ common sense and humour
have been exactly what I needed.

I subscribed almost two years ago when I thought my relationship
of then 18 years, had come to an end. To cut a long story short, I had neglected my wife and worked too much. She had become very lonely and wanted a divorce.
I went through a few months of confusing hell before subscribing to your mailing list and seeing it all from a different perspective.

2 years down the road and we have never been happier. We really haven’t.
Although I got a few tips from other people and worked some out myself too eventually, I have to give you credit for inspiring me not to give up, to carry on fighting for the woman I love. And it worked.

Kevin, you have probably helped many more people and are really busy, but I just wanted to say ‘Thank you man!’ and keep on doing your thing.

Wishing all the very best my friend.

Warren Lewis

Hi Kevin

Just wanted to say a huge thank you for all your amazing advice. Thanks to your advice my partner who had parted from me is now my fiancé and we are getting married this year. I continue to apply the great things I’ve learnt to my relationship daily and words cannot explain how happy we both are.

I am so grateful for all you have done and want to wish you all the best in your endeavours. Thanks a million

Teena 🙂

Thanks for all the help , I have read every email and my girlfriend and I are stronger than ever before. Thank you and good luck with all!-David
All your advice these last couple months helped me get over a hard time, inspired me to move on, and eventually got my ex to be my next girlfriend again, lol. Thanks, you the man – Al Davis


My husband and I reconciled, thanks to your great advice. I still read your e-mails and understand everything much better.

Thank you very much.


So now I have my ex begging for me back and he tells me he loves me still and all that. I told him that I still love him and I never stopped, but this time I’d like things to be different and he needs to change some things like don’t give up on his future schooling dreams like he usually does and to treat me better than he did before. Does it sound like I’m doing it right? I also told him that I don’t want the label yet until he can prove to me that he is worthy of my time. He has told me that he is committed to changing and to do anything it takes for me to forgive him ‘one day’. I hope I’m not pushing him away.. – Krystal

Hi Kevin

When I first started to read your emails, I must be honest I thought they were all absoluate rubbish. However, I had nothing to lose so decided to put them to the test. Please feel free to copy this email to all the other people you reply to (without my email address). I had the impossible man. Hostile, rude, can never spare that much time. In short I was sort of having an affair – I said sort of as he often made me feel that I should be soooo greatful that he was giving me his time. Ya right. Well to cut a long story short, not only have I turnt him around, EVERY BIT OF YOUR ADVICE WORKS. Just please keep emphasizing to every one, it takes time but it does work. Being patient is important. He recently had the nerve to ask me to lend him £1,000. Obviously I am not. It has gone full circle thanks you to emails. Now that I have him I do not want him. I have seen him for the man he really is – not nice. You made me realise that I am worth more than that. You have influenced me so much I have decided to join an open univerity course and study couple counselling.

Thank you and keep your emails coming. I hang on to our every word. THANK YOU. – Hayley

And then I got another email from Hayley a couple of weeks later.

Hi Kevin

I cannot thank you enough for your advice. All I can say is please feel free to copy this email to all your other members. Mr ” I don’t show my feelings” actually told me last night that he cared about me and was actually falling in love with me. However, he said he wants to protect me and not hurt me anymore. When I told him that he could not do it twice, he actually looked into my eyes and said “who have you been getting advice from – you’ve changed, you are more confident and assertive. I just smiled. Now I got him back, I don’t want him as I know how hurtful he can really be. Your advice is priceless. Its so true

The one who cares the least wins. – Hayley

Wow i must say that your advice is really, really helpful to me and i thank you so much for helping me with my break up. So far me and her speak and she told me that she wants me back but I’m Not going to rush it again, I want to make sure she really means what she says. – Richy
hello kelvin,its really amazing to know that in this world we have people like u who are able to come up with excellent ideas or tactics to help people are hurting to win back their love.I am so grateful to tell u that i have my girlfriend back.Thanks for all the wonderful tactics that has been useful to me. KELVIN,U ARE WONDERFUL & I APPRECIATE IT.

Dear Kevin

And I’d like to say that when all else failed, YOUR emails kept me going, and tonight “we” finally got there (after and hour and a half on the phone)

Victoria & Ian
(UK – new subscriber)

Testimonials Part 2: People Who Didn’t Get Their Ex Back

Hey Kev, your emails definitely helped me some great advice, getting fit, healthy and going out on dates got me right back on track.
Made me realize there is a lot of nicer girls out there then the relationship I was in. I’m now in a better relationship with a women more intelligent and easier to relate too.
Your stuff about , confidence, insecurities and no contact has been priceless for me.
Thanks from Australia
Two years ago I went through the toughest things of my life. When I lost the love of my life I was lost. I was confused and hurt. That’s when I stumbled on your emails. I read everyone and little by little I made myself a better person. I’ve been great for the last year and I have your emails and my friends around me to thank. I got on my feet and was ready to face the world again.I have saved every email you have ever sent me because I know how much they have helped. To be honest I have been so well that I got to the point that I did not need your emails anymore, but I stayed on the email list anyway. Then I got your email today and I thought about what the emails mean to me. And I realized that even though I am at a good place now, that it’s thanks to your emails. They are very comforting even still. Thanks for everything Kevin. I owe you more then you know.Alex “feeling better” J
You probably won’t read this and I don’t know if this is even the “Kevin” that has been sending out the email. If it is though I just want to thank you. When I subscribed to your emails in 2011 I was in a very sad part of my life. I had just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years and I had looked for every and any possible way to make myself happy again. I had come to the conclusion that the only way I could be happy again was to get him back. Then I found you and thought that it was worth a try. The first email I received from you (other than the confirmation email) was titled “are you sure you want your ex back?” at the time that was the only thing I was “sure” about. I read all your emails and watched the videos. Over time thought I stopped thinking about him so much and started focusing on me. Just the happiness again. It’s been a little over two years now and I am happy. I don’t talk to him and I haven’t in a very long time, I don’t worry about seeing him, I’m happy again, In fact receiving your goodbye email was actually the first time I have thought about him in a long time. Since him I have experienced more of life and I have grown to be a completely different. I saw him the other day, I smiled and waved and he just looked at me, I got nothing back. A year ago that would have killed me but I was ok with it. Anyways this has gone on a lot longer than I thought it would. Back to the one thing I wanted to say. Thank you. – Missy

Hi Kevin,

Thank you! You helped me a lot in going through my breakup. I am friends with my ex although we don’t speak too often anymore, which is fine. I have found a new boyfriend who is so amazing – makes all the pain I had to go through to get here with him so worth it.

From the bottom of my heart, Kevin, thank you for the great work that you do and I salute you for your kindness and generosity.

May you be blessed 100-fold.

All the best,


I subscribed to your mailing list about 2 years ago. At the time, me and my boyfriend ‘were on a break’. After some time I just gave up and tried to set up a meeting for ‘the talk’. Now I won’t bother you with the details but it came down to him avoiding me and we never saw each other again, bastard didn’t even give me back some of the stuff I had left at his place.
This letter won’t be a ‘Thanks to you we got back together!’-type of mail. However, right now I am in a healthy relationship and, even though I have nothing to do with my ex anymore, that ìs thanks to you. your advice helped me build a strong, happy, meaningful relationship with my current partner.
Therefore, even though I didn’t get a chance to make things up with my ex, I still enjoy reading your letters and would like to continue doing so.
Long story short, I just wanted to take this chance to say: thank you and keep doing what you’re doing, helping others.

Kind regards,


Thank you for everything. You have been a godsend and I appreciate your constant support. Thanks to you I have moved on and found someone better than before and our relationship is stronger than any I have ever had.
Phonesia Machado

Hi Kevin,

I’m not sure if you will get this email reply but I wanted to let you know how things turned out for me since subscribing to your emails….
In the early months after my bad break up with my ex, although your advice was very valuable unfortunately it didn’t help me get my ex back he had been cheating on me with a teenage girl who was pregnant (I was also 8 mths pregnant and just 7 mths after our daughter was sadly stillborn) I have no idea how I got through those dark dark months but I did and I continued to read your emails… I did eventually meet someone new the following year, which happened to be the heartbroken ex of the teenage girl and father of her unborn baby…. (lol) we helped each other piece together a very upsetting puzzle and fell in love 🙂 we now have a 13 month old daughter and I’m also 6 months pregnant with another daughter… Our exes are still together and the teenagers child is in the childcare system due to violence in their relationship and my ex is not allowed to see our son (I was left 8 mths pregnant as mentioned above!)
We are hoping to get married before our new baby is due and both strongly believe that we were supposed to be together and all the previous heartbreak we experienced was all part of the ‘plan’ to lead us to one another… We are so in love and so happy now and will be celebrating 2 years together on 22nd March 2014! I hope that your many subscribers go on to find true love following their heartbreak and I wish then all the very best 🙂

PS I don’t mind if you want to share my crazy story with your subscribers 😉

Warmest Regards
Zoe Anne

Your words are bringing me back to life. After 12 years of loving someone he left because he said he outgrew the relationship. I never felt so much pain in my life. That was 9 months ago. I am beginning to see brighter days and the sun is coming out from behind the clouds. I read your messages every day and am given little pieces of hope that keep me going each day. I thank you even though we’ve never met and appreciate your kind words on such a sensitive matter. – René

Testimonials Part 3: Miscellaneous Testimonials

I get a lot of simple thank you emails every day. However, some of them stand out. Some of them inspire me, some of them put a smile on my face, some of them give me an ego boost, and some of them make me laugh. This part is just a collection of some of those emails that stood out to me.

thank you kevin
your shit helped – Christian

You did me more good in your emails than you believe possible. 🙂


Hey Kevin,

Since this is goodbye I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice. Many of your emails helped me go through a really difficult time in my life. If there are other people out there that have been effected as much as I was then you truly are a life saver. I’ve appreciated all your time and thoughts.


Your service has really helped me. At 63 you would think….but I try to
engage per your advice and still having trouble after the realization in
first of January. Relationships! Never realized how insulated I was and how
I could have been such a far better person. I am still totally immersed in
desiring this woman back. It is like a dragon that appears and disappears.
Progress is slow and agonizing. I cant help but think if only I could have
her all back…But thank you for making complete and total sense. I can see
past my own nose better at what makes a woman or a spouse tick from their
eyes and however little insight I have gained you seem to have this process
down pat. I am not a good student but the heart wont give it up. Too much
crap to deal with in these hard times.Cheers mate!Gary without his Judy.

Thank you! Your emails were so helpful to me, I just recommended the site/information to my friend who is going through a divorce, though feels like she may still return to her husband. I told her that she needed to sign up with your emails because of the consistency, honesty & charge for self reflection that they hold – and how helpful they are! I will definitely be sending her this new information.

Thank you for all the hard work and dedication, I wish you all the best! Erin, Grand Rapids Michigan.

You always know what to say at the very exact moment. Pretty nifty!

My new motto: I am on a mission to be happy.

Thanks for all your wisdom.

You are amazing sir.
Despite a lack of feedback from me since I subscribed,
I LOVE your emails and ebooks. God, everything you have
written sir is VERY solid material. Heck, not to breach “don’t compete” idea,
but you should limit the amount of subscribers allowed. Privatize it. .Thanks again for all of your insight,
Sean Conlon from Tampa FL.

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