This post is for anyone who’s been broken up with. Not the mutual kind of breakup, not the “we both saw this coming” type, and not the betrayal type (cheating, etc.). I’m talking about being broken up with when you didn’t want it, didn’t see it coming, or still believed there was something left to […]
Everyone keeps telling me that an “ex is an ex for a reason”. That even if they come back, they will probably use me and leave me again. And I am just having a hard time believing that. The truth is, what we had was something special. I felt it and I know they felt […]
I understand that I need to do no contact and work on myself to become a better version of myself. And I implemented the no contact rule yesterday and am planning to stick to it for at least 30 days. But I keep thinking that my ex is just too prideful to come back. He […]
Day 20 of no contact. By midday, I would convince myself that I am on the right track and that my ex is probably missing me. My gut feeling would be that they come back. But by 2AM, I will start dreading, doubting everything, thinking that my gut feeling is wrong and is only false […]
As a guy with confidence on the lower end of the spectrum, the odds were always against me. Never really popular in school, stayed within my group of friends in college, and when I got a job, it felt like the possibility of meeting new people just vanished. When my relationship ended and I thought […]
It took me months to even entertain the idea of dating someone else after my breakup. But when a cute Brazilian girl showed interest in me, I couldn’t help but give in. I asked her out and went on a date. It went well and we dated for a few weeks. However, I fell for […]
Let’s go through a thought experiment. Let’s think for a moment that I really want you to read this article, but you are not that much interested in reading it. Me, as someone who wants you to stay and read this article, have very little control over it. But, you as the person, who are […]
“You are the key to this relationship. You control the temperature.” my counselor said to my partner. And it honestly felt like a relief. Like someone finally understands me. I’ve been trying to make him understand this for so long that if he could just take a moment to calm down, we can have a […]
After being given false hope by many psychics, almost being taken for a ride by a con artist disguised as a Psychic, and given somewhat helpful readings by some genuine Psychics, I came to the conclusion that the best Psychic reading I ever had was when I sat down and listened to my own intuition. […]
While cognitive dissonance sounds like a pretty heavy term, it’s actually quite simple. When we do things that are not in alignment with how we feel or what we think about ourselves, we feel uneasy and as a result, we tend to avoid doing that thing. It means we are not in harmony or in […]