There was a time after the breakup when people would tell me something like, “You need to understand that your ex is not who you think they were. They are not your person. And you need to move on and find someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea.” And I would say […]
Yes, no contact rule can help you move on from a breakup. It can also help you get your ex back. But did you know it can also make you realize that your relationship is worth trying to save and maybe it makes sense to be vulnerable and reach out? It can also put you […]
Fearful or Dismissive. Secure or Preoccupied. Your ex is still a human being. Someone who was, once upon a time, a child who craved love and deserved to have their needs met. As an adult, they are still someone who craves a healthy relationship. Who craves to be loved and have their needs met. Who […]
One of the questions that plagues a lot of men is if no contact works on women the same way it works on men. The question usually arises after reading advice on forums and watching YouTube videos on the topic of getting an ex back. Some coaches claim that women move on faster, that no […]
When I first started no contact, I was sure what I needed to text my ex after no contact to make her love me again. I was playing the perfect scenario over and over in my mind. I had decided I would text her a simple, “Hey, wanna catch up for a coffee.” and keep […]
When we were still together, cuddling on the sofa late in the evening, my ex asked me if I will always love her. It felt euphoric. “This amazing woman wants me to always love her”, I thought to myself. Without giving it a second thought, I said, “Of course, I will. I will never stop […]
“We finally openly talked about the things that broke us apart”. This is a quote from our reader, Leona, who was separated from her ex for more than a year. During that one year, they were occasionally in touch with each other and had doubts about the breakup. But for the entire year, they just […]
One of the hardest breakup I went through was followed by constant, obsessive and self-critical thoughts about my ex, the breakup, and the relationship. Thoughts like, “Why didn’t I pay her more attention?” “Why did I take her for granted?” “If I had done _____ when she was upset, maybe we would still be together.” […]
Ex Boyfriends do tend to come back after a breakup. Especially, if you follow the no contact rule and give them space. But it’s not always the case. In this article, we will explore why they come back, how many of them come back, what you can do to help your ex boyfriend come back, […]
Your girlfriend broke up with you. You may be confused about what comes next. This article will serve as a guide to what you can expect and how to use this breakup to turn things around. To start with, you need to understand that breakups can be painful. Depending on your personality and your attachment […]