Ex Back Permanently Clarity Evaluation

• Should I Give Up Hope?
• Is There even a chance?
• My story is complicated, can I tell it to you so you can tell me if I have a chance?
• My ex blocked me / was long distance / is stubborn / is depressed / had a rough childhood. Do you think the 5 step plan will work for me?
• I messed up. Is there any coming back from this?

I get questions like this every day—and have for the past 15 years.

This is Kevin Thompson. I’ve been a breakup coach for more than 15 years and I run the most popular breakup website on the internet since 2011. You can read about me and Ex Back Permanently over here. I am the author of the largest study on exes coming back ever conducted and the biggest contributor to breakup advice online, having personally responded to thousands of people in public and helped many more in private. (You can even read some of our testimonials over here.)

Since starting Ex Back Permanently in 2011, I’ve worked with people from all walks of life.

Toxic relationships, unhinged fights, cold shoulder, infidelity, marriages falling apart due to neglect, boyfriends leaving at the altar, avoidant patterns, narcissistic patterns, anxiety ruining relationships, exes despising each other, desperation turned all the way to 11 and everything else in between.

I’ve seen it all. Not just once, but many times. And in a lot of such cases, exes do come back and start a healthy relationship.

It doesn’t happen all the time. But it happens enough for me to adapt a mindset which says,

“It’s worth trying to save a relationship that’s special.”

And if I have to boil all the questions that I get down to three questions, they will be –

1. Should I Keep Hope of My Ex Coming Back?

2. Is My Relationship Worth Saving? Is There Potential Of a Healthy Relationship?

3. Exactly What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back in My Situation? (Should I Do No Contact? Wait for them to reach out? Ignore them? Apologize? Explain to them why we are good together? etc. etc.)

But, there is one more important question that a lot of people forget to ask. And that is –

4. What Can I Do To Keep Them If We Get Back Together?

I truly wish I could answer all these questions for everyone who lands on my website or emails me. But I couldn’t. I simply don’t have enough time in a day to read everyone’s story, process it in my mind, and answer these questions for them.

Until now…

Let me explain…

Information on the internet is great. But you Need Answers About YOUR Situation.

You’ve probably already read articles on this site. Maybe watched a lot of Youtube videos. Perhaps even talked to ChatGPT about your breakup.

And I am sure all that helped you get some clarity about your situation and calm yourself down.

But you STILL don’t know:

• Do YOU have a real chance or are you chasing false hope?
• Should You really start no contact or continue trying to get them back?
• Should YOU reach out after no contact or wait for them to come to you?
• Is YOUR situation different from the general advice?

The Truth About Advice from The Internet and AI –

I have a lot of helpful articles on my website and there are tons of videos about breakups and no contact on YouTube and TikTok. But they all give general advice. Do No Contact. Let your ex come to you. Reach out after a certain number of days. Reach out when you have healed. Become outcome independent etc.

But here’s the truth –

• No contact works for some situations and backfires in others.
• Reaching out repairs some relationships and pushes others further away.
• Your ex being in a rebound, being depressed, having commitment issues, having blocked you—each of these changes the strategy completely.
• Some connections are extraordinarily strong, while others are not.
• Your situation is unique, your love is unique and your connection with your ex may truly be special.

And while I try to be as thorough as possible in my articles, it’s still nothing in comparison to the personalized advice I give to people.

What About AI?

AI gives solid general advice—and it should, because no contact and moving on work for a lot of people.

But YOUR situation might be the exception.

Maybe your ex is avoidant or maybe they are just too ashamed or scared to make a move. Maybe your ex secretly hopes you fight for them.

Maybe complete silence makes it worse. Maybe you need to reach out to your ex instead of waiting for them indefinitely.

Or maybe you need a real person to tell you that you need to stop texting your ex and give them lots of space.

Maybe the “move on” advice is protecting you from wasting months on false hope, or maybe moving on will make you lose out on a once in a lifetime relationship.

AI can’t tell the difference. I can.

I’ve seen these patterns play out thousands of times. I know when the standard advice applies and when it doesn’t.

That’s what you’re paying for—someone who can look at YOUR dynamics and tell you what actually applies to YOU.

You don’t need more general information. You don’t need what works for the majority.

You need someone who’s seen thousands of these situations to look at YOUR specific case and tell you exactly what to do.

I Wanted to Help More People, But Personal Coaching Is Expensive

For years, the only way to get personalized guidance from me was through:

• Email coaching: $399/month or $59 per email reply
• One-on-one coaching calls: $149 per 45-minute session

These work because I get emotionally invested in my client’s success. My clients get:

• My undivided attention and my emotional investment.
• Answers to their specific questions
• Real-time conversation and guidance
• Ongoing support through the process
• Text review before they send anything to their ex
• Back-and-forth guidance as their situation evolves

But it’s not accessible to everyone who needs help.

Most people don’t need all of that. They just need answers to the core questions:

• Do I have a real chance?
• Should I try to get them back or move on?
• What strategy should I follow?

So I created a way to answer these questions for $29 instead of $149-$399.

The Ex Back Permanently Clarity Evaluation

Here’s how I made this work at $29:

1. You get answers to a predefined set of questions, not your own custom questions

In coaching (email or calls), you ask whatever you want and I answer. Here, I answer the same core questions for everyone based on your specific situation. This saves me significant time.

2. AI handles the intake and organization

Instead of me reading through scattered information and asking follow-up questions via email or spending call time just gathering your story:

• You complete a structured questionnaire (or record voice answers)
• AI asks clarifying questions if needed
• AI extracts all the crucial details about your relationship and breakup for me (I have a detailed backend system for this that AI helps run)
• AI organizes everything into a clear brief for me
• The AI keeps everything private and confidential. Your information is not used to train AI models.

This cuts the administrative time from hours to minutes.

3. I focus purely on analysis and recommendations

I review your organized information and write your evaluation based on 15 years of pattern recognition. Same expertise, just delivered more efficiently.

You’re not getting a chatbot response. You’re getting my actual analysis. AI just handles the busywork so I can focus on what matters—evaluating your situation and telling you what to do.

The analysis includes –

• Answers to the 3 most important questions (Hope? Should I? How?)
• Additional guidance (What to do after getting back together? Recommended readings. Personal growth advice. Next Steps)
• Detailed response includes –
  • why each step is recommended and what is important for your situation.
  • Possible scenarios you can expect and what to do in each scenario to maximize chances.
  • What your ex may be thinking or feeling based on insights from similar situation.
  • When will your ex move on based on studies and insights from similar situation.
  • What to expect if you and your ex communicate again and what to focus on for a healthy reconciliation.
  • When to give up and move on even if you want them back now.
  • Best way to let them go and move on (if that’s what you choose to do).
• Delivered within 48 hours of receiving your submission.

My evaluations are grounded in the core principles of Ex Back Permanently:

• Healthy communication – No manipulation, games, or tactics that require you to be someone you’re not
• Strong boundaries – Never chase, beg, or sacrifice your self-respect to get someone back
• High self-esteem – You should become a better version of yourself, not a smaller one
• Honest assessment – No false hope. Only realistic chances based on similar situations I’ve encountered in the past.

Anything you share with us will always be kept 100% private and confidential.

What You’ll Get (The Questions I Answer)

The EBP Clarity Evaluation is designed to answer pretty much all your breakup queries in one go.

I don’t want you to think of questions to ask me. Because I know, better than you, what questions you need answers to. Now and in the future as you move forward in this breakup journey.

The only thing you need to do is explain your situation in as much detail as possible and I will send you the clarity you didn’t know you needed.

Within 48 hours, you’ll receive a personalized written evaluation from me answering these questions based on YOUR situation:

1. Your Realistic Chances & Should You Keep Hope?

An honest assessment based on 15 years of seeing these patterns play out. Do you have real hope or are you holding onto false hope?

• What your ex may be thinking or feeling based on insights from similar situation?
• When will your ex move on based on studies and insights from similar situation?
• How likely is your ex to return on their own if you do strict no contact?

2. Should You Try to Get Your Ex Back or Move On?

A clear recommendation with specific reasoning based on your relationship dynamics, how the breakup happened, and your current situation… not generic advice.

• Does your relationship even have a chance of a healthy reconciliation? Or are you more likely to repeat an on/off again pattern.
• If there is hope, how much time and effort would it take?
• When to give up and move on even if you want them back now?
• Best way to let them go and move on (if that’s what you choose to do).

3. What Strategy Should You Follow?

No contact, the 5 Step Plan, staying in touch, or a custom approach based on your specific circumstances.

• Detailed response includes –
  • Why each step is recommended and what is important for your situation.
  • Possible scenarios you can expect and what to do in each scenario to maximize chances.
  • Whether or not you should reach out after no contact or you should wait for your ex to reach out first.
  • What to expect if you and your ex communicate again and what to focus on for a healthy reconciliation.

Plus, I’ll address the specific factors in YOUR situation:

• If there was cheating: Whether trust can be rebuilt and how
• If they’re in a rebound: Whether you should wait for it to end and how long rebounds typically last in cases like yours
• If you’re blocked: The best path forward when contact is cut off
• If there are concerning patterns (abuse, control, toxicity): Whether getting back together is even advisable
• If you broke no contact: How to recover from the mistake

(Note: This does NOT include review of specific texts you’re planning to send—that’s email coaching)

4. What to Focus On for a Healthy Relationship

• If you do get back together, what needs to change to make it work this time?
• How to achieve that change the fastest way possible?

In addition, you will also get the following in your response –

5. Recommended Reading

Specific articles, books, and courses that apply to your situation.

6. Personal Growth Areas

What you should work on regardless of whether you get back together or move on.

7. Next Steps

Whether you can handle this on your own with the evaluation and recommended resources, or if you need ongoing support through email coaching or one-on-one calls.

What This Is NOT

Let me be crystal clear about what you’re getting and what you’re not:

❌ This is NOT a chatbot – You’re getting my actual analysis, not AI-generated advice.

❌ This is NOT a “discovery call” – I’m not going to tell you to “book a coaching session to find out.” You pay $29, you get my complete evaluation. In fact, you will get more clarity from this evaluation than most coaches offer in a coaching call.

❌ You CANNOT ask your own questions – I answer the 4 questions listed above based on your situation. I answer it in great detail based on everything you share. If you have specific questions beyond these, that’s email coaching ($399/month or $59/email) or a one-on-one call ($149/45 min)

❌ This is NOT ongoing support – It’s a one-time evaluation. No back-and-forth, no text review, no follow-up questions

❌ This is NOT a conversation – You submit your situation once, I evaluate once and answer the predefined questions

If you need more than this—answers to your specific questions, real-time conversation, ongoing support, text review, help implementing the plan—get email coaching or book a one-on-one call instead.

But if you just need clarity on the core questions (Do I have a chance? Should I try? What strategy? When to reach out?), this gives you that for $29.

How It Works

Step 1: Complete Your Submission (10-15 minutes)

After purchase, you’ll get access to the intake form. The form will ask you general questions and you should try to be as detailed as possible about your situation.

Answer structured questions about:

• Basic info (ages, relationship length, time since breakup)
• The breakup (what happened, how you reacted, what you’ve done since)
• The relationship (conflict patterns, recurring issues, red flags)
• Current situation (contact status, is your ex seeing someone, are you seeing someone)

You can type your answers OR record voice responses (works both on desktop and mobile). At the end of each section, you’ll review what you shared and can add more if needed.

Step 2: AI Organizes Everything

The AI structures your information into a clear brief so I can see your complete story, timeline, and key patterns immediately. AI extracts crucial information needed for me to evaluate your situation without missing any important details.

Step 3: I Review and Write Your Evaluation (My Time, My Expertise)

I read the brief and write your evaluation answering the 4 core questions based on 15 years of experience with situations like yours.

Step 4: You Receive Your Evaluation (Within 48 Hours)

You’ll get an email with my written evaluation. Clear, direct, honest answers to the core questions, along with detailed explanation of each answer.

Who This Is For

This is perfect if:

• ✓ If you feel your relationship with your ex is worth fighting for.
• ✓ If you have been panicking and are constantly wondering whether you should start no contact or keep texting your ex.
• ✓ You are scared of losing your ex or are afraid they will move on if you don’t make the right move.
• ✓ You’ve been going in circles for weeks or months and need expert clarity.
• ✓ You’ve consumed content (articles, videos, AI advice) but still don’t know what to do in YOUR situation.
• ✓ You need to know if YOU specifically have a real chance or if you’re chasing false hope.
• ✓ You’re willing to hear the truth even if it’s not what you’re hoping for.
• ✓ The 4 core questions I answer are what you need clarity on.
• ✓ You can take action based on a written evaluation without ongoing support.

This is NOT right if:

• ✗ You have very specific questions beyond the 8 core questions I answer (get email coaching or book a call)
• ✗ You need someone to review your texts before you send them (get email coaching)
• ✗ You want to talk through your situation in real-time (book a one-on-one call)
• ✗ You need ongoing emotional support through the process (get email coaching)
• ✗ You want a back-and-forth conversation where you can ask follow-up questions (get email coaching or book a call)
• ✗ You just want validation for what you’ve already decided
• ✗ You’re not ready to hear honest advice, even if it’s hard to accept

Pricing Breakdown

Clarity Evaluation: $29 (one-time)

What you get:

• Written evaluation answering 8 predefined core questions
• Based on your specific situation
• Delivered within 48 hours

What you DON’T get:

• No text review
• No custom questions beyond the 8 core questions
• No back-and-forth conversation
• No real-time discussion

Why it’s $29: AI handles intake and organization, I answer predefined questions = less time per client = lower price

One-on-One Coaching Call: $149 per 45 minutes

What you get:

• Real-time conversation with me
• Ask YOUR specific questions
• Get immediate answers and guidance
• Talk through your situation live

Best for: People who want to discuss their situation in real-time and ask specific questions.

Link To Purchase Coaching Call

Email Coaching: $399/month or $59 per email

What you get:

• Answer YOUR specific questions (not just the 4 core questions)
• Ongoing back-and-forth support as your situation evolves
• Text review before you send anything to your ex
• Help implementing your plan
• As many questions as you have (with monthly package)

Best for: People who need ongoing support through the entire process.

Link To Purchase Email Coaching

All three options give you the same 15 years of expertise. The difference is scope, format, and delivery method.

Important Details

One evaluation per person – You can only purchase this once. If you need more than one evaluation, that’s ongoing coaching or multiple calls.

Delivered within 48 hours – From when you complete your submission

No refunds, no guarantees – You’re paying for my honest professional assessment, not a guarantee of any specific outcome. The time I spend on your evaluation is non-refundable, hence no refunds.

No follow-up questions – This is a one-time evaluation. If you have questions after reading it, that’s email coaching or a one-on-one call.

Questions?

“Are My Details Kept Private? Will You Share The Details With AI Companies?”

Your details are kept 100% private and confidential. They are not shared with any entity outside of Ex Back Permanently. We use AI to process the information, but we use enterprise API agreements that guarantee your data is not stored, logged, or used to train AI models. Your submission is processed and immediately deleted from AI systems.

“Do You Offer Refunds?”

No. Since the time I will take for your evaluation is non-refundable, I won’t be able to provide any refunds for this product.

“What if I’ve already talked to ChatGPT about this?”

ChatGPT gives solid general advice based on what usually works—and for many people, that’s helpful. But it can’t tell you when YOU’RE the exception to the rule.

I’ve seen thousands of these situations play out over 15 years. I know when no contact works and when it backfires. When reaching out repairs things and when it pushes them further away. When your ex being in a rebound means you should wait and when you’re wasting your time.

ChatGPT tells you what generally works. I tell you what works for YOUR specific situation.

You’re paying for pattern recognition that comes from real experience, not algorithmic probability.

“Will you try to sell me coaching after this?”

No. You’ll get your evaluation. At the end, I’ll tell you whether I think you can handle this on your own or if you’d benefit from coaching support. But I’m not going to pressure you. You decide what you need.

“What if the answer is ‘move on’—is it still worth $29?”

Yes. Knowing you should move on IS the clarity you need. It’s better than spending months chasing false hope. Plus, I’ll give you guidance on how to move on and what to work on.

“Can I ask follow-up questions after I get the evaluation?”

No. This is a one-time evaluation answering the 4 core questions. If you need more than that, email coaching or a one-on-one call is available.

“How is this different from your articles?”

The articles give general advice. This evaluation looks at YOUR specific situation—your relationship dynamics, how the breakup happened, what you’ve done since, current circumstances—and tells you what strategy applies to YOU.

“What if I need help implementing the plan?”

Then you need email coaching or a one-on-one call, not just an evaluation. But most people just need to know WHAT to do. Actually doing it is on you (or you can get coaching support for that).

“Should I get this evaluation or just book a one-on-one call?”

Get the evaluation if you just need clarity on the core questions and prefer written guidance you can reference anytime. Book a call if you want real-time conversation and have specific questions beyond the 4 core questions.

“What if my situation changes? What if my ex contacts me? What if they start dating someone else? What if they block me?

Your evaluation will give you a game-plan to follow for all the likely scenarios that may happen in the future. This will be based on what you share with us. So try to be as detailed as possible in your submission. And Kevin will try to include all the possible scenarios that may happen with your ex in the future.

“My Situation Has Changed Since My Last EBP Clarity Evaluation. Can I Purchase Another One?”

No. You can only purchase the clarity evaluation once. If you need further support, please purchase coaching services.

“Why Don’t You Have Any Testimonials Over Here?”

Aren’t you tired of reading testimonials everywhere? We’ve got a trustpilot page with testimonials, a page on our website and probably thousands of emails with testimonials.

But I am more interested in your success. This is why I am spending my time crafting offers that will get you results rather than gathering testimonials to change your mind.

The EBP Clarity Evaluation is a result of hundreds of thousands of emails between me and my clients over the past 15 years. You can get all that expertise, insights and knowledge – fine tuned to your situation – in a matter of 48 hours. All that for just $29. I guarantee you won’t find a better deal anywhere else on the internet.

“My ex is avoidant/narcissist/stubborn/etc. Will this work for me?”

Yes. The evaluation can help you understand your ex’s behavior and patterns and tell you what to expect in the future.

But more importantly, it will tell you how you contribute to these patterns and how you can change things for the better.

My approach is built on healthy communication, strong boundaries, and high self-esteem. When you apply these principles:

• Good-hearted avoidants usually come back once they see you’re different
• Narcissists come back too—but leave when they realize you can’t be manipulated anymore

Either way, you win. You either get back a healthier relationship, or you repel someone who was wrong for you.

You don’t need a PhD in attachment theory. You need to understand your own needs, communicate clearly, and respect yourself. That attracts the right people and repels the wrong ones.

The evaluation will tell you what to focus on for YOUR situation based on what you share.

“My Situation is complicated and very different from the normal stuff you see online. Can this help me?”

Yes, the EBP Clarity Evaluation is designed to help you get clarity on your situation even if your situation is different/complicated or special. The reason why I made it so cheap is so you can quickly figure out if your situation is worth salvaging and the best way to do it. The clarity evaluation is invaluable for most people who find themselves in a complicated/different situation.

Stop going in circles. Get clear answers to the core questions within 48 hours.

After purchase, you’ll be directed to the intake form. You’ll also receive instructions via email.

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