The 5 Conversations You Need to Have With Your Ex To Get Them Back Permanently

"What can I say to my ex to get them back?"

It’s a simple question. And I have been asked this question at least a thousand times before by my readers and clients from all over the world.


Do you know why this question is so common?


Our brain is constantly trying to figure out a solution to the breakup pain. Our brain wants a simple answer to the problem it's currently facing. And if they can just figure out some sort of "magic words" to make their ex come back, they can solve this problem and live happily again.


Usually, I would just ignore such questions and think of them as one of the many desperate questions that the mind asks. Questions like,


“What if my ex moves on?”

“Does my ex still love me?”

“How can I get my ex to beg me back?”


But one day, one of my clients asked me the same question in a different way that made me think differently.  My client asked me.



“Are there certain words, said in a certain order, at a certain time that will make my ex want to be with me again?”

It's the same question worded differently. But it triggered something in my mind. After all, every one of my client that got back together with their ex said something to their ex at a certain time that made them want to get back together.

What if there are words, said in a certain order, at a certain time that will make your ex want you again? 

This is what lead me to create my Advanced Course. The EBP Advanced System.

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I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart as we are engaged again.

I followed your programme, sometimes not always to the 't' but 99% and it worked! After an awful, unfortunate break-up last March, things slower started to patch together again in late September last year - and I mean slowly. Lizzie and I were engaged last time and due to be married in July 2016. It went wrong in March - but enough of the negative!

Truth is, your programme worked, was SO accurate in what was happening on the other side in her life through the break-up, what Lizzie was thinking, doing, checking (Facebook through a mutual friend as we were blocked), all sorts! I followed your tips, hints, behaviours and I'm pleased to see I was successful. I also had a lot of sorting out to do in myself - and you helped me so much with your daily emails. Wow.

I appreciate you may not have time to respond or even check emails such as this - but I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart as we are engaged again.

What I loved about your programme the most was it wasn't just about getting back with somebody - it was a process to decide if you actually really wanted to - or not. THAT'S what I loved most. The lists to make, the thinking, the process - all of it! Wow!

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Kevin! Will send you a pic of the wedding day!


Cory McAllen

- UK

we're determined to work on ourselves and on the relationship so that we get it right this time


It feels like I'm getting a do-over on my relationship, that we're both better and stronger people now. Not only have we gotten back together, but we're determined to work on ourselves and on the relationship so that we get it right this time. He's a great guy and I feel so blessed to have another shot with him. Thanks for giving me the help and the hope to not give up on him. Your material helped me formulate a game plan, which was something to focus on when my heart was really hurting.


Karen Lewis

- Georgia, USA

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About Kevin Thompson

The founder and the mastermind behind Ex Back Permanently. If you've read his articles on the website, you know he doesn't beat around the bush. He is determined to give men and women around the world the tools they need to deal with breakup and build the relationships they deserve.

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